Criticism / Sarcasm

October 1, 2013
Tuesday

I just don't get it?

Why people say CRITICISM and they don't know they if they are already hurting someone? 

They are just lucky that  person they criticize does not want to cause any fights around.

Honestly, by them doing that they don't even realize how stressful for the person they criticize at!!!  They just feel like saying it infront of people.

...or they would just do it on purpose?...really sad :(

for me...I really can't believe there are such person exist to this world to hurt people (emotionally) and they don't care at all!!!

...they just dooo...what they want to dooo.

hmmm, yes, its kinda hard to deal with people like that.

I would try to do is just avoid those people without feeling any anger.

True, sometimes or most of the time past experience will bring it back to you, especially when you face them. 

but what I try to think about is to just think of the positive side...that not all people are like that.

and rather that wasting all the negative energy in dealing with them is to spend more time in praying for them...and you too.

Too much stress can really bring different types of sicknesses.

So...why spend all those money to doctors just because of  those person criticising...just let them be...maybe thats part of there hobby or enjoyment.  Let them be...

It's better to...

- Avoid them.
- don't group yourselves with negative people.
- don't group yourselves with fake people, especially those who like to criticise infront of people.
- ofcourse hang out with happy people, positive people, and people you can learn from.
- don't waste time on stress mode...that mode can really trigger to sicknesses...believe me!
- and most importantly learn to forgive them and pray for them and yourselves too .